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I am dating two woman at the same time, neither of them know that I am dating multiple people I don't feel like they need to know. I have had sex with one of them and the other one is coming to my house in a couple days. My question is what do you think that the limitations should be on dating multiple people? S: I have been on 4 dates with one, and 3 dates with the other. Delete Report Edit Lock Reported. Respond to Anonymous:. Respond Your response must be between 3 and characters. Women view sex differently than men do, with that being said, expect some hurt feelings and possibly losing them both when they find out about the other.
Not telling you that you can't do what you want, just offering a woman's point of view. Hope it helps. Wilde Send a private message. This early on in dating, I think it's all right not to volunteer the information, but if asked you should answer truthfully. You've got good reason to feel guilty if you bend the truth when asked a direct question.
If you aren't doing that, it's a good thing for your conscience to be nipping you, but it's better just to use condoms than feel guilty. BTW, the women need to start asking direct questions to see who they're dating and what the arrangements are. IanLang Send a private message.
I think, as long as there's no pretext of exclusivity, that it's probably fine. So your saying you can date multiple women, but your feelings of guilt is contingent on a time period? When leading multiple women on theyre probably going to develop feelings dumbass.
And are you sure they dont know? Trust me some women know things, and just wait to hold tht sht against you. How old are you?
This reply was removed by the author. Kingslayer Send a private message. Anonymous : I didn't see anything written in the OP that would indicate he is a dumbass. Delete Report Edit Reported Reply. Or you know who you want but still curious about the second girl?
Listen, I'm a girl and trust me I have done my share of things so no judging, but my advise is Be honest, be honest, be honest. Seems like you are young, so I imagine the girls are young and prob share your pov on multiple dating. Tell the second girl you are seeing someone else, and she takes the conscious decision to have intimacy with you knowing that then great, you just got to home run with both and can make an informed decision you will have to end it with one in the end.
Hell if I like the guy that much and want him for my own, I'd try it and if we don't work out well at least I will appreciate his honesty. Let us know what you decide. Edited on February 24, at UTC by the author. I wouldn't want to be invested in a woman that was banging some other guy one day and me the next. But I would make sure that I had that convo as soon as the sex started. AlphaWolf Send a private message. Anonymous : By why is the onus on him to tell her that he is seeing someone else and might bang her?
They haven't talked about exclusivity. Shouldn't she be responsible for asking the questions that she needs answered in order to make an informed choice about whether she wants to bang someone? Or even continue dating for that matter? I think that there's When to stop dating multiple guys wrong in being curious and find out with whom you may have more affinity, chemistry, etc. I personally think that you don't need to go as far as having sex to know who you may be more into. My advise is that as soon as you detect your feelings leaning towards one of them more than the other and I mean like real quick you should end it with the other one.
Is not fair for no one to keep that on. And I would say don't do it for them, do it for you. Once your head is free, there's nothing better than the share, and intimacy and the process of knowing each other better and falling in love, but you cannot accomplish that with a split mind.
Well, 4 and 3 dates are not too many. But hurry up and decide whom you prefer As a woman who has been multidated, here is my advice to other women:: 1. It could mean that he's using you to rationalise his dating budget; or trying to get his own back because the other one really twisted his arm.
My future husband had a "just a friend ex" who twisted his arm to pay a 3 figure bar tab. The next weekend when he and got together, he was not generous at all despite his partaking in other people's rounds. He may be calling you because his No. When he is ready. He becomes ready when he's done the proper evaluation not tried to win but decided her worth to himand made his choice.
Now, for the record, that goes hand in hand with being the best man one can be, for both her and in general. Man don't do that Get one good girl and love her for that. Being a man or manish is ability; if you have a sister, I know you have a mother would you want someone to treat her this way? No you wouldn't. Tell them both and let thinks falls as they should.
And if you feel that way, it sure isn't right! You can try to convince yourself all you want, as to "technically" what the situation is. But love and feelings aren't about technicality!
If you have already slept with girl 1, then you do like her. Unless you are a man who sleeps with every woman you go out with, on just 4 dates! And if you do like her, then what are you still seeing the other girl for? Are you treating them like cars that get taken out on test drives?? Why don't you mention to girl 2 that you are still interested in having her over, but you are also sleeping with another girl. See how quickly she disappears from your life! If you are looking into someone's eyes and making love to them, how can you turn around and do the same with another person as well?
What's the difference between animals and humans?? Of course, technically you don't have to care about any of what I wrote That up in the air stuff is not cool. Bombtastic Send a private message. Are you ready for a relationship? Is that the end goal of dating these girls?
If they haven't asked for more don't assume they want more. Trust your gut. Don't listen to what others standards are make your own and when confronted be a man and stand up for your beliefs. I'm in the same situation with someone. What made you choose one girl over the other?
Good luck in your decision. Snakesnsnails Send a private message. I don't think anyone should commit too soon.
I think it's the mature thing to do to let your dates know you're not exclusive until you feel it's warranted. If they don't see eye to eye with you on it, then it's too bad. No one should be pressured to go on lock after only a few months. That's just ridiculous and ultimately stems from insecurity. For the record, I'm a woman giving you this advice.
Lew Send a private message. Hi, there is nothing wrong with you dating multiple women. The problem is if your misleading women- their feelings run deeper than men's especially with sex. It doesn't matter how many times you say were friends intimacy brings feelings.
I would be upfront and honest that you are dating, give the people the opportunity to decide if they want to be apart of your world. Now he only told me 1 person- that's a major deal- breaker were over 40 yr old, and people still play these games.When to stop dating multiple guys
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When do you think that a guy should stop dating multiple woman and choose only one?