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After having been a rebound girl the summer ofI swore I would never get involved with another emotionally unavailable man who had baggage and was a poor communicator. After a heavy night of drinking he confessed that he was scared to get into another relationship because he associates them with pain and feeling trapped. He would give this a try.
How can someone do a overnight? It dawned on me that he probably had one foot out the door the entire time. Why did I, yet again, get ahead of myself and trust someone that I barely knew? I confronted him about it and he took no ability for ending things the way he did.
He has convinced himself that he is being honest with me. He became hostile and angry that I contacted him. I came to realize he will find another awesome girl and do the same thing to her to fill his void of being alone. I sent myself in to a six-week black hole, and I will never get those six weeks back. I always thought of myself as someone who had high self-esteembut I began questioning why I was upset over someone who shut me out so intensely and quickly. The people whose opinions matter are the ones who have actually stood by me through thick and thin. I have gone through this before, and I will go through heartache again.
Each time I pick up the pieces of my broken heart I learn a little bit more about who I am, what I deserve, and what I am capable of giving someone. I can rest my head each night knowing I stayed true to myself, and you can too. I have learned this many times, the hard way. Trying to fix someone else chips away at your soul.
Worry about yourself and let them figure themselves out when they are ready. I look at the many healthy relationships I have in my life with friends, family, and coworkers, who choose to be in my life and are always there for me. I truly believe being able to express emotions is a of strength, not weakness. Anyone who is incapable of accepting or reciprocating feelings is missing out on one of the most rewarding gifts in life. Looking back, I saw the flags and never raised questions because my heart was in too deep. I would have saved myself a lot of time if I had the confidence to speak up.
If the other person is intimidated or scared and runs away, better early on then months or years down the road. I have so much to offer, and you do too. Brianna lives in NYC and prides herself on trying to live a healthy lifestyle inside and out. She has a corporate job by day and stays busy travelling the world, crafting, and staying active. This site is not intended to provide and does not constitute medical, legal, or other professional advice. The content on Tiny Buddha is deed to support, not replace, medical or psychiatric treatment.
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Until I met X in Things were too good to be true. This lasted for all of about twenty-four hours when he ended it. Sucker punch to the gut. I came to realize he will find another awesome girl and do the same thing to her to fill his void of being alone Lather. Repeat I sent myself in to a six-week black hole, and I will never get those six weeks back.
They are not perfect and you will always be disappointed if you continue to do so. Take time to get to know someone before jumping to conclusions about your future. Trust your gut instincts. You will be okay. Be upfront early on about what you want. More Posts. See a typo or inaccuracy? Please so we can fix it! Did you enjoy this post?
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