Added: Shannon Hoff - Date: 06.07.2021 08:26 - Views: 44980 - Clicks: 4836
It seems a little weird that people want predictability in their relationships so bad, that they get frustrated at the first of the hot and cold tactic. Of course, not all of us like to play games. Some of us are of a more serious disposition — we know it when we like someone, we are upfront about it, and we stay committed.
So, how does one deal with a partner who is playing hot and cold and causing mayhem in their otherwise calm and romantic minds? Well, the key is to remember that everyone wants stability — but each individual works towards it according to their circumstances and nature.
Some people like to be straightforward, and others like to be in control!
Before you ask, there can be a few reasons why they want to take the wheels. It could just be a test where your partner wants to find out how cool and confident you are. Maybe they are trying to figure out how far they can push you. Or maybe they are trying to get you interested to a level where they feel more comfortable opening up to you. So, you see, they are looking for stability in their own crafty, calculating way. But they are not confused.
Not in the least. Quite to the contrary, they want to feel that they have total power over you and will use that power towards whatever end their wily mind wants, whenever it wants. They have one objective only — to not get hurt. Now, to be honest, there are only a million ways of dealing with a partner who likes to play hot and cold. Kudos to you! The best way to handle a partner who plays hot and cold is to confront them.
You be in your cool, caring, and careful zone. Question their behaviour without demanding answers and just watch how their reaction unfolds.
Remember that they are admitting this only because you caught them off guard. Its up to you how you want to proceed with them.
Think carefully about whether you should invest more time and feelings into a person who is pathologically unpredictable. Finally, find out if they are interested in a relationship with you and would it be wise to trust them on it. However, if your partner gets defensive and denies their tendency for one-upmanship, or if they take offense that you even thought it possible of them, or if they try to be the master of the situation and disregard your questions, you have a big, huge, alarming red flag flying high right in front of your eyes!
This is a person who just wants to feel powerful over other people. They are not interested in a normal relationship where both people know what the other wants.
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